Have you guys heard / read about love languages?
I heard about this from 2 of my close friends and i would like to share it here for a long time ago.
It's a pretty good lesson especially for those couples who had been together for years.
It's not easy, but well, it's not too hard at the same time to maintain a long term relationship.
I always thought that communication is the only to solve arguments. \
After some time, i realized that not only communication, but understanding the love languange of your love ones is very important as well.
so, what's the 5 love languages? "The essay below was quoted from this site, http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the-languages/the-five-love-languages/"
This book was written by Gary Chapman - I haven't read the book yet. Found it through online :)
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
I think i'm more towards word affirmation? or physical touch?
I'm a coward and low confident person! I need someone to keep telling me that everything is fine and keep motivating me...
But i'm learning and my next goal is to be even more independent and patient! Try to be more flexible too!
Human always afraid of changes but unfortunately i'm working in this fastest growing company. I've got no choice but be FAST & FLEXIBLE!
Everyday is like fighting in a war! ok stop talking about work.
Btw, I'm pretty sure that bear is "Acts of service"! ohhh poor me! gotta start vacuuming n cleaning the house to make him feel love! OMG!
Do you know how much i sacrifice for this? muahahaha it's all BS la! I'm just plain lazy to do housework!
He's always the one who always keep the house clean!
but i'm proud of myself that i actually spent 2 days to clean the whole room thoroughly!!!!
Not sure whether he feels something but well, i'll improve as we go along! lol
In a nut shell, it's not just about understanding which love language your love ones belong to but treat him/her along with their love languange is the most crucial part to maintain a long term relationship.
This post is to remind me to stay calm and continue treating my love ones along with their love languages.
Not just the bf but the family members too.
Thanks to both, my previous colleagues who shared this to me. Hugs.
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